Reflection One: Developing Self-knowledge

Young woman in the sport wear outfit is sitting and relaxing in the camping in the forest.

Self-knowledge is usually deep within us, intimately tied up with our identity, relating to the deep beliefs, values and the principles by which we live. Often we don't easily articulate it, or even think too much about it. In a sense, it is about who you are, and what makes you, you.

This could be either for personal reflection or a discussion shared with another person.

This could be either for personal reflection or a discussion shared with another person.

What is your own personal value system? (This is about the essential basis of what you stand for)

  • Where did your beliefs and values come from? (Who or what contributed to you developing those values and beliefs? 
  • Can you identify significant people, experiences or events etc which contributed towards your formation?)
  • How does your value system influence the way you live?
  • How would other people know that? (What's the evidence in your life and actions for your value system?)

Once you have finished your reflection you might like to see what the most common answers are. Click on the title of this Reflection above. 

Thinking about the questions relating to personal values (above) with Christian leaders, Alan Flintham found the most common answers were: 

What is our personal value system based on?

  • All are made in God's Image, of equal worth and value 
  • Obeying God's call to respect and love neighbour as self 
  • Obeying God's command by putting the gospel into practice D: Showing God's love, in mercy and forgiveness 
  • Showing God's redemption by offering a fresh start

Where do our values come from?

  • our family and parental influence/upbringing 
  • our church and its leaders 
  • a sense of service/commitment to others 
  •  personal faith and biblical understanding.

You may have different answers.